Does all this new social media have you confused and guessing about what everything means?
All the vocabulary is different, its uses are different and now comes word that a “poke” is a form of harassment. Who would’ve thought? Wasn’t a poke considered fun? I always thought a poke was a nudge, a friendly reminder, just a simple gesture, the elbow in the rib’s kind of thing or a thumbs up. Or, maybe its meaning is more like a “poke in the eye” because now you can go to jail and it’s considered harassment. According to Webster’s Dictionary a poke is:
poke (verb) : to send an electronic message intended as a reminder, salutation, or flirtation
When I started posting to Facebook, I admit I poked someone. I thought it was in jest, just a friendly nudge. I don’t even remember who I poked, but I thought it would be fun to say, “Hey, I’m here, just wanted to say hi, give you a wink, or just a reminder”. Never did I even consider it to be a bad thing or form of harassment. Who knew it wasn’t a good thing? There was no manual that came with Facebook. Who are the people who come up with this?
Conclusion
It all comes down to being as careful on-line as you are in public or face-to-face. Perhaps there are some people taking Facebook and Twitter all too seriously? However, now that I know, I guess I won’t be ”poking” anyone any more.
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October 17, 2009 at 7:44 am
Mike C.
Online etiquette is always changing, it seems – your advice to treat people online like you would in person is spot on.
October 17, 2009 at 10:33 am
Betty Jung
Thanks for your comment. I try very hard to watch what I say on-line or how I come across. I appreciate you as a reader.